Module One: 6 Sessions
Emotional Regulation 1
with Carolyn Bright
How to Ask or Say No
SESSION 5 OF 6
Duration 20mins 24secs
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In this session, Carolyn looks at interpersonal effectiveness and considers skills for helping us know how strongly we should ask for something, or when we should say “no”. She considers how what works in one situation may not work in another and the times when you make a request but feel like you haven’t been heard. Carolyn provides a solution, explaining in detail the factors to consider (a technique developed by Marsha Linehan PhD).
Carolyn investigates each factor and offers skills and insight for how to incorporate this new learning into your life.
ALL SESSIONS IN THIS MODULE: Emotional Regulation 1
01
What Are Your Goals?
In this session Carolyn explores how to set communication goals by evaluating our priorities, our objectives and our self-respect. Carolyn considers what might get in the way of good communication. She investigates emotions, short and long-term goal setting, our environment, our internal belief systems and where we position ourselves in our world. Carolyn offers insights,...
02
Getting What You Want
In this session, Carolyn considers the importance of interpersonal effectiveness and clear communication. Carolyn provides a solution, explaining the framework in detail using the acronym DEAR MAN (a seven-step conversational technique developed by Marsha Linehan Ph.D.). It might seem a little frightening at first, but using this clever little framework can help you communicate how...
03
Improving Your Effectiveness
In this session, Carolyn looks at interpersonal effectiveness and considers skills that communicate your requests in such a way that it helps you build and maintain a positive relationship with the people around you. Carolyn provides a solution, explaining the framework in detail using the acronym GIVE (a four-step conversational technique developed by Marsha Linehan...
04
Maintaining Your Self-Respect
In this session, Carolyn looks at interpersonal effectiveness and considers how we can sometimes sacrifice our self-respect to get what we want or we give it up for the sake of maintaining a relationship. Carolyn provides an answer, explaining the framework in detail using the acronym FAST (a four-step conversational technique developed by Marsha Linehan...
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In this session, Carolyn looks at interpersonal effectiveness and considers skills for helping us know how strongly we should ask for something, or when we should say “no”. She considers how what works in one situation may not work in another and the times when you make a request but feel like you haven’t been...
06
Building Relationships
In this session Carolyn looks at how good relationships support both our physical and mental health. She considers the different ways to build new relationships and how to identify and move on from our destructive relationships. Carolyn offers insights and examples to consider if you are trying to make a new group of friends or...
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